On NZ Dating the other day, an 18 year old asked me to do cam sex. 18 !
I told him he was a bit young for me (he didn’t even look like he shaved) but he said “It’s just cam and I’m horny”. I said thanks, but no. It just would have felt… icky.  Yes, […]

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One of the most successful tactics of the Gay Liberation Movement back in the 70s was the emphasis they placed on “Coming Out” as a political statement.
The logic was that if every gay man and lesbian came out and admitted who they were, the general public would see so many queers everywhere that they’d […]

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