It is just gone midnight on Thursday night and like a number of gay men and lesbian women in New Zealand, I’ve had a long work day, knocking off three or four day’s work in advance, one task after another, because, like them, I’m flying to the 30th Annual Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras […]

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Aidan thought adultery was where a group of adults got together and discussed contemporary issues so he was completely unprepared for the consequences of his Civil Union.

Blair knew he had the best butt in the Bay of Islands and that many tourists admired it.

Chen spent a lot of time on NZdating and thought of himself […]

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I’ve just moved house.
And packing was a complete revelation of what I’m inclined to think of as My Gay Life – years of it.
I couldn’t believe how many condoms with HIV/AIDS messages on them I’d managed to get given or pick up over the years – and not use. I now know what a lubricant […]

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