I like bars. But, you see, I do like a drink and chat. And even with their drawbacks, bars are one of our main social spaces as homos. There are guys I know from bars and only from bars. We never or very rarely socialise outside them. Yet we know each other, or we know about each other.

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I don’t think about why I am  gay so much these days, unless I have to. When I was an angst-ridden teenager, it occupied my mind considerably.
Why was it that I had no sexual  interest in girls, like the other boys did, I wondered? Why did I enjoy showers so much, all of us standing […]

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I’ve been thinking about cock a lot. Well Duh! I am a homo after all. And I’ve seen a lot of cock in my life. OK, more than just seen.
I mean, of course I like arses, legs, arms, chests, stomachs, armpits, faces, etc, but really, if a guy doesn’t have a dick, well, as they […]

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A friend just rang and offered me a free ticket to tonight’s HERO Party, and I said “Hmm, well, I don’t think I really want to go. It’ll just be another Salvation”
“Me too” he said, “I can’t be bothered, that’s why I’m getting rid of the ticket”
What happened? Why don’t I care about the HERO […]

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This one I called “Did you read it? Did you Believe it?”  
That dumb “article” in the latest depress that hints, without ever saying so explicitly, that something is deeply wrong at the AIDS Foundation, again, It’s one of their favourite themes for some reason. The article is a mess of innuendo and non-sequitirs.
I must […]

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Well, try and shut me up! It’s great to have another venue to let my deeply considered philosophical musings play in. I am sure you will all learn a lot. Now sit back, and if you have to, you may take notes.
I’ve been invited to come and play here, and I’m happy to do so. […]

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